With the summer drawing quickly to a close, I'm starting to get anxious about being a working girl again. I know, I know...I just said the other day that I wasn't as depressed about going back to school, and I'm not. What I'm anxious about is all the other stuff. When I'm working, I literally feel like doing nothing once I get home. It's all I can do to take Macey for a walk or go to the gym. I'm exhausted from the day, and I know it's going to be 10 times worse this year, especially at the beginning of the year with my kindergarteners. So, as a result, our house goes to shambles during the week. I try to not let it happen, but it inevitably does. Then, on the weekends, I get even more anxiety about the fact that I have to spend the entire weekend cleaning and reorganizing from the week. Throw in a super busy weekend or a trip out of town, and the house doesn't get cleaned for two weeks. And this is when the mental breakdowns occur on my part.
I grew up in a clean house. My mom worked full-time as a teacher, raised us three kids, commuted nearly an hour each way to and from her school, attended all of our events, as well as those for her school, and did most of the errands for our family of five, yet still kept a clean and organized home. When we were have guests, each of us had jobs we needed to do, like cleaning our rooms, dusting, or vacuuming. We knew what my mom expected from us in doing those things, so we did it right in order to earn our allowance. My dad is a really good cleaner, too. My mom has taught him to do certain things, but I also think his time in the Army when he was 18-21 helped also. He washes the kitchen floor and cleans the showers like a champ!
That leads me to Kurt. Kurt's parents have a different philosophy on keeping a clean house than the one I grew up with. My mother-in-law has a lot of wonderful qualities, but her ability to keep a clean home is not one of them. And this has been passed on to her son, my lovely husband. I can't even explain in words how opposite our parents' houses are. It is unbelievable!
So that brings me to us and our home. I basically had a breakdown this evening because I am tired of doing all of the cleaning. It sucks, plain and simple. Kurt does do most of the cooking, and I am so grateful for that, but I hate cleaning all the time.
Tonight we went out to dinner, and instead of chatting about our days or about Macey, we created a plan. Our cleaning schedule for daily, weekly, and monthly items. I typed it up and we are going to post it in our house so that we can work to stick to it. I know there are going to be nights where I just can't wipe down the bathroom sink, or sweep the kitchen floor, but I'm going to work my hardest to do the best I can. So, here is our cleaning plan:
Daily Items:
Kurt:
- Make bed
- Put dirty clothes in hamper
- Put shoes away or in basket
- Clean up Macey’s toys
- Take out trash
- Cook dinner
Kate:
- Put dirty clothes in hamper
- Clean up kitchen
- Dishes into dishwasher
- Wipe off counters/stove
- Put shoes away or in basket
- Put away things purchased that day
- Wipe down powder room
- Organize mail from the day
Weekly Items:
Kurt:
Sunday- Vacuum
Monday-
Tuesday- Clean up yard/porch
Wednesday- Laundry
Thursday- Take trash out
Friday-
Saturday- Clean out fridge/pantry
Kate:
Sunday- Laundry
Monday- Dust living room/family room/basement
Tuesday- Bathrooms
Wednesday- Sweep/Mop floors
Thursday- Windex doors
Friday-
Saturday- Change sheets on bed
Monthly Items:
- Dust ceiling fans
- Windows/Doors
- Weed flower beds
- Reorganize as needed
- Review budget
I'm sure there are things that we are forgetting that I'll have to add, but I feel like this is a good starting point. What do you think? Do any of you have a cleaning schedule that you follow? Does it work? Any suggestions?
Here's to a clean house and a less stressed Kate!